Tag: Life

My Emotional Breakdown {Inspiring Women}

Hi friends! For the months of May/June, we will be using a reading plan given to us by Sweet to the Soul Ministries. Feel free to stroll through their Facebook page and blog. They even have a journaling kit and Bible study for this month’s plan

Each of us face our own battles, and it’s an ongoing struggle. None of us have enough energy or power to face these struggles on our own. This is why this Scripture is of such great importance {click here for part one of this message}. Even though we may lack every resource needed to fight our battles, God holds the key. God is the key to conquering these struggles. Join me, as we think on God’s ability to tackle our problems.

Finally, be strong in the LORD and in his mighty power (Eph. 6:10, NIV).

Throughout Scripture, we are reminded that God is all powerful. Not only is our great God all powerful, He uses His power to influence our lives – for the better. God wants to help us with the great hardships we are facing.

We face so many things on our own, and the crazy thing is – we don’t have to. I have assembled a small list of Scriptures that have something to teach us, in response to learning about our God’s great power and how He is our Hero who wants to save the day in our lives.

We are more than conquerors, because of Jesus Christ who has loved us. This is what we are taught through Romans 8:37. We can have victory over our circumstances, because of our great God.

God’s Emotions in the Storm

God has been teaching me lately about the truths of Hebrews 4:14-16. I have been going through an emotional breakdown due to the season of life I am in. Life gets unbelievably hard, friends. I know that you know that, but there is something else to add to this.

God is the One who grieves with us. He is feeling everything we are going through. So, we don’t have to endure all the stuff of our lives – all on our own.

There are countless individuals who are struggling and maybe on the brink of doing something big – like taking their own life. Because, life gets hard. And when life gets hard, we become convinced that we are in this all alone. But friends, this is far far away from the truth that we find in the Bible.

See, God wants to pour His strength into our lives. God wants to hold us, weep with us, revive our broken spirits, heal our wounds, and take us to a place of greater heights where we find His joy and peace.

Let’s resolve to stay close to Jesus Christ! Right now, in whatever you are facing, cling to Jesus. We have an amazing God who wants to be everything you need right now, but you have to be willing to seek Him.

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart (Jeremiah 29:11-13).”

In Christ,

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Fighting Well When Weary

I have been sick for quite a while. Some days or weeks, are miraculously better than others. Then you have days like these, where there’s just debilitating weakness and nightmares (meaning: lack of sleep). Everything is snowballing. So, the question you habitually begin to ask is. . .

“Would someone else do a better job if they were placed in my shoes?”

You wonder if someone else would have more success, if they were in your exact shoes.  You begin to consider if it’s not your circumstances, as much as it is somehow you.

The Gift of God’s Grace –

Even as I wrestle with this question, there is something I know to be fully true.

I know, it’s by God’s grace that I have accomplished all I have. And I know that this same grace God gives, is why I can remain encouraged and endure through my circumstances. Because of Jesus’ work on the cross, I am not alone and He is carrying me and my grief.

I may struggle with how well of a job I am doing, but I am still here. I am still fighting. I am still staying where I am planted, and trying to be on the look out for something good to spring up from the ground of my circumstances – that makes it all worthwhile.

Even so, I still can’t help but wonder about that thing. That question. “Would someone else do a better job?” The question, I guess, we all find ourselves asking at one time or another. Even if it is not in sickness, we each face our own unique battles.

Let’s resolve to give this to God. May I give this to my God, with whom I have a relationship, because His knowledge and strength are far greater than my own!

I am what I am. I give what I give. I just need to keep my sword of intentionality nearby, so I fight this battle well. I need to be able to fight well.

Be Intentional –

I need to remember to be intentional. While I can’t break from my struggles, I can choose how I fight my battles. And some days, I will lose. But, I need to figure out how to win.

Our circumstances are not our choice, but how we fight is.

Many of us face circumstances, where we cannot pause our circumstances to regroup ourselves. There’s comfort in knowing I am not alone. The struggles are, as I said, unique for each of us.

I need to remember I am doing my best. Even when I am too weak to fight. Even when I am tired of fighting. I need to be careful in how I fight and learn to fight well.

The Tools –

And, fighting well means not giving up. Summer will be difficult on my body, but I can’t give up. I have to continue enduring and learning which weapons are best suited to fight my battles, which includes –

  1. Stay deep in the Word. As for this Summer, I am working toward reading through the book of Psalms and blogging as I go.
  2. Keep praying and fellowshipping with my Lord Jesus.
  3. Trusting myself and more importantly Jesus Christ. I need to trust that I am doing my best with what I have been given and that my Savior is well pleased with me – regardless of my sickness.

ANNOUCEMENT::: Summer Schedule Change

 

To my friends near and far –

I wanted to update you all on a decision I have made – regarding our “Inspiring Women” study as well the rest of our Summer series.

The Inspiring Women study has been amazing so far, hasn’t it?! I am absolutely loving it. God gave me exactly what I needed to hear this afternoon through this morning’s devotion on Joshua 1:9.

. . . And honestly, this is what it is about.

The Goal

This blog is about hearing God speak to us, in the midst of our circumstances. Circumstances are messy and difficult, and God wants to provide us with the encouragement and instruction we so desperately need to hear!

While our circumstances are far from pretty, at times, our holy God has saw fit to speak to us and dwell with us! Jesus Christ has come to be our Savior, and we have been given the Holy Spirt to guide us in our lives! We are not alone.

A Change in Posts

While the blog study is absolutely amazing, I am coming to realize that I need to “scale back” on some of the things I have been doing. I am discovering that I am overextending myself quite a bit.

So I propose to you a new change regarding the Summer studies {which will include the Inspiring Women series}.

From this moment on, the blog posts will be posting on a different schedule. So, when can we expect a blog post? Monday | Wednesday | Friday. Those are the days, where you can expect blog posts (with the exception of possibly this Monday). While I may post on different days, I want these to be the days where you know that there are new posts on Gracefully Overcoming.

Other than obviously doing this for physical and reprioritizing reasons, I want each blog post to be deliberate.

. . . I don’t want posts to be “thrown together” at the last minute. Instead, my hope is to keep each blog post as much of a blessing as possible.

. . . I want for us to grow with God and be able to authentically seek His face with each blog post. I don’t want any post to miss the intentionality, because I was in a hurry.

Summer Fun Ahead

I have a few ideas planned for Summer. Hopefully over time, I can share some of these mini-series with you all. Our ultimate goal is to glorify Christ and encourage one another. With each post, this is the goal and I will be as faithful to the MWF posts – as possible.

If you aren’t following this blog’s Facebook page, I invite you to do so. I have been posting regularly, to help us all keep encouraged in our spiritual walk with our Lord Jesus!

Until next time, my friends.

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Be Bold in Christ {Inspiring Women}

Hi friends! For the month of May, we will be using a reading plan given to us by Sweet to the Soul Ministries. Feel free to stroll through their Facebook page and blog. They even have a journaling kit and Bible study for this month’s plan!

With today’s verse, we could go ten million different ways. It is a Scripture we all know and love (granted, it is a bit scary too!). But, how do we become strong and courageous? And honestly, depending on our circumstances, how big of a difference does some courage make?

Yes, be bold and strong! Banish fear and doubt! For remember, the Lord your God is with you wherever you go (Joshua 1:9, TLB).

In the first chapter of the book of Joshua, a new leader is in town. Joshua, the assistant to Moses, stepped up and began to lead the people. In this chapter along with the following commentary, we learn that the way we lead our lives – really does make a difference.

Asbury Commentary reminds us of the context of this passage.

God commanded Joshua three times (vv. 6, 7, 9) to be strong and very courageous. Then, for good measure, the people said they would follow Joshua if he would be strong and courageous. . .

Pondering –

We might be bold enough to bring up the obvious. We aren’t Israel’s leader. We aren’t tasked with the enormous mission to lead millions of stubborn people, so they make it to the land God was promising them.

Their faith was dependent on how Joshua led. Likewise, how we live will either draw us near to God or away from Him.

Even though we are not Joshua, we still need to listen to the truth of Joshua 1:5-9.

Clinging Truth –

In Joshua 1:9, we are urged and reminded that we can be strong and courageous because God is going with us. This is perhaps the greatest reason to take this verse and apply it to every area possible in our lives. We need to pray this verse of our lives, and that of those around us.

The greatest motive is knowing we will never be alone. This life can be awfully lonely, at times. In our circumstances, we can find ourselves experiencing even more loneliness. But, God is arming His following daughters – with strength, grace, and boldness.

As women, we don’t have to passive. We can be strong and impactful too, because we are created by the Most High God! This means something big for us, ladies.

This is a tremendous truth that would radically change our lives. It would just change everything about us and our lives. Our relationships would even be different, because we are going to be the strong daughters our great God is calling us to be!

It is only because of our Lord Jesus Christ, that we can live boldly! We have to decide if we want to accept the boldness the Holy Spirit equips us with. Choose today who you will be and who will guide your life.

 

Following Perfection Versus Jesus

I have been feeling led to study 1 Timothy for quite a while. As I study, I generally blog about whatever it is – that I am studying. The Timothy study is tugging at my soul frequently these days, reminding me of where I need to be.

Why haven’t I committed to this study? I have perfectionist tendencies and set lofty expectations I cannot realistically meet. My heart and physical abilities are in two separate places, and must be able to meet.

Developing Courage

We miss so much when we put everything on hold – in case we can’t follow through as planned. Our expectations cannot be more important than God and relationships.

Here is the thing: Perfectionist level expectations can strain those relationships and hold us back, to the point where we won’t immerse in our friendships or read our Bibles without the promise of expectations being met.

The Real Question

How willing are we – to step out in faith, where we trust Jesus Christ to make us courageous people?

We have been called to be strong and courageous. Every little bit we give to God is a worship offering. Just because we miss our own expectations, does not mean that we somehow miss His or those of loved ones. We have to be willing to lay down our own expectations, and exchange it for time with Jesus and those we care about.

Allowing Ourselves to Worship

It goes back to the truth of being a living sacrifice. When we give ourselves to God, we become an acceptable offering.

Jesus Christ is the key ingredient. We need Jesus to be the One leading us, even in our expectations. He is the One who enables us to set reasonable expectations for ourselves and those around us. So, let’s make our lives about our relationship with Jesus Christ.

While my best efforts aren’t enough, I have a Father whose resources are unlimited. This Father of mine is willing to help out His sons and daughters in any and every way – as we call upon His name. We may not meet our own expectations, but this is the place where we meet the grace and amazing love of our great God.

Choosing Wisely

Standing in this place of  God’s love and grace is where we can allow ourselves to make a trade. We can trade in our high expectations, for the opportunity to stand in awe and worship God – as we trust Him to make a way.

I hereby command you: Be strong and courageous; do not be frightened or dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go (Joshua 1:9, NRSV).

Friends, we must choose whether we want to follow our perfectionist tendencies or Jesus Christ – the Living God. Our lives are messy and out-of-control, which may lead the perfectionist march, but Jesus Christ is more than enough. He doesn’t have to try to be, for He is perfect!

As for God, His way is perfect: The Lord’s word is flawless; He shields all who take refuge in Him. For who is God besides the Lord? And who is the Rock except our God? It is God who arms me with strength and keeps my way secure (Ps. 18:30-32, NIV).

Until next time,

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